For a Libra-inspired evening, borrow the atmosphere: a pretty table, a lovely color palette, and enough room in the plan to hear what everyone wants. A soft glow and a favorite color can give the evening a lovely place to begin. It is simply a playful design idea. You get to decide what balance looks like in your own evening, including leaving a little time unplanned.
Give both preferences a place
Try asking what you want before deciding how to keep everyone else happy. Then invite the other person to do the same. Make the setting lovely if that is your style, but leave room for direct words as well as atmosphere. A thoughtful plan can accommodate different answers. You can enjoy a little beauty while making sure your own preferences have a place at the table.
Try making a plan where each person chooses one element. One can suggest the setting, while the other chooses the food or the activity. Then talk about anything that does not fit before the evening begins. Balance does not have to mean identical contributions or perfect agreement; it can mean that both sets of preferences were heard. If you catch yourself saying 'whatever you want' automatically, pause and offer one real thought.
THE LITTLE DETAILS
Build a Truly Sexy Flirt getting-ready routine
For a Libra-inspired evening, borrow a love of beautiful details while keeping the plan your own. A coordinated getting-ready routine can be one small pleasure before you meet, with each product doing a different job.
The wash
Bubbli - Truly Sexy Flirt
This Bubbli body wash and bubble bath carries Truly Sexy Flirt: jasmine, lemon and amber. Start here if you enjoy a floral, citrus fragrance and want to coordinate a few body-care favorites.
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The optional shave
Vuluxe – Truly Sexy Flirt
This is Vuluxe shave cream in Truly Sexy Flirt. It gives the shaving step its own formula while keeping the fragrance coordinated with the matching wash and body oil.
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The body oil
Lustra - Truly Sexy Flirt
Lustra Truly Sexy Flirt is a body oil with jojoba, coconut and argan oils. Choose this texture for your body-moisturizing step when jasmine, lemon and amber are the notes you enjoy.
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The fragrance finish
Refreshing Fragrance Mist - Truly Sexy Flirt
This body mist carries the same Truly Sexy Flirt fragrance. Keep it as a finishing scent choice, separate from the wash and moisturizing steps, and follow its application directions.
View in my shopLet beauty support the conversation
It can be as simple as preferring a quieter place or an earlier start. The beautiful details are still welcome: a favorite color, a lovely plate, a comfortable seat. Let those details support a conversation where being considerate includes being honest about what you want too.
For a balanced little date night, what would you choose first: the beautiful setting, the food, or a plan that gives both people a real say?